Which instance would you use instead of lemmy.zip?

From another post

Lemmy.world is too big  
sh.itjust.works names contains "shit", which can deter users  
lemmy.ca is Canadian-centric  
feddit.org, is German-centric, but technically English speaking too  
dbzer0 is topic focused  
programming.dev is topic-centric  
blahaj is queer-focused  
discuss.tchncs.de has a difficult name  
lemmy.sdf.org does not defederate anyone  
beehaw defederates LW and SJW  
infosec.pub is topic-centric  
aussie.zone is country-centric  
midwest.social is region-centric  

https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/37336391?scrollToComments=true

https://lemmyverse.net/?order=active_month

There’s a reason lemm.ee was the previous default instance.