He’s been giving mixed signals as well, such as dressing fancy all of a sudden, staring at me a lot, sometimes being nice and other times rude. I get that he’s unstable (obviously) and he generally acts like this with people he’s attached to but it still makes me wonder if he would treat me this way if he actually did have feelings for me.
I am ND and have also dated some NT and had crushes on NT. Currently dating another ND.
Said shortly, no this is not how any sane human treats another sane human. Run. RUN! RUN FROM THAT PERSON!