i really don’t like erratic behavior, defensive behavior, or people who act off in any way (in a bad way) but someone said i was ableist for this.

like someone got upset bc i said a character was handsome and they said “why do u like the character bc theyre handsome when u dont know the character” and i never said i knew them. or that i liked them. i just found them handsome from the photo.

  • Lumidaub@feddit.org
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    4 hours ago

    It depends on how your dislike manifests. If you just take yourself out of the equation and leave them be, that’s self-care. Telling them to stop a behaviour that they can’t help because of some disability, telling them they’re “lesser”, that’s ableist.

    How is you liking that character relevant?