i really don’t like erratic behavior, defensive behavior, or people who act off in any way (in a bad way) but someone said i was ableist for this.
like someone got upset bc i said a character was handsome and they said “why do u like the character bc theyre handsome when u dont know the character” and i never said i knew them. or that i liked them. i just found them handsome from the photo.
There’s a lot of nuance here, and I don’t think anyone can answer the question about ableism sufficiently, but as a demisexual I just want to say that “why do you think the character is handsome when you don’t know the character” seem like words from a person who has not yet discovered they are demi and thinks everyone is just like that lol