This was my exact circumstance. The tumor grew into my spinal column and collapsed it almost completely. I lost my ability to walk and had to relearn.

That’s just it. Hopefully it’s temporary for everyone involved. If you can move your family or yourself without difficulty and have the means necessary, just do it. Don’t wait around for the inevitable.

Not suggesting this for everyone. Just those that can manage it. I understand not everyone can just go.

Something like this happened to me. I am much older however. It wasn’t the exact circumstance but a bad deal none the less. Turned out I had a cancerous spinal tumor that was misdiagnosed repeatedly. Go to the doctor. Be sure your problems are what you think they are. If you’re waiting forever and it gets worse go back. If no one listens find a new doctor.

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If you are on a visa and have any possible way to leave america, get out please.

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