Not exactly answering the question here but I am wondering about whether or not this counts as inceldom.

So here’s the deal with me. I am an ugly person who is only attracted to attractive women. I have tried dating women who were, for a lack of better term, “looks-matched”. But even though we actually connected really well I just couldn’t develop any romantic feelings for them because of their looks.

Now this has left me in a situation where I am certain I will never get a girlfriend. My beauty standards are just too high. But I do not blame women for this. It’s perfectly reasonable for attractive people to want attractive partners. Hell, that’s pretty much my standard as well when it comes to dating (except I’m not physically attractive). So whadaya gonna do?

Thank you for your advice! The dance party was a ton of fun and I danced with lots of different people!

Just remember that standing around and not talking to anyone is as much a choice as going up to someone and asking for a dance.

This one in particular really stuck with me. And I was surprised how much truth there was to this line ^^