Ok so I cheated on my boyfriend, it was sporadic here and there it was largely due to my xan addiction but I have kicked that and been cali sober for a few years. Speaking of Cali, my boyfriend inherited a house in the San Jose Valley, it’s a nice house pool 3 stories counting basement it cost like a lot even though in Ohio it would be 300k max.

So we are getting back together I remember how much I love him and miss him the past 9 months without him and he is missing me to. I have a ton of stuff planned but what do you suggest in terms of things to do and mindset to have ?

  • IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOP
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    2 days ago

    I do love him and we had technically gotten back together before he inherited

    Second me and him have worked out an agreement he gets 25% of my onlyfans revenue a month and it’s just my rent. This was a big issue for both of us because I do see why he does’t find it fair and I did do it while we were together without telling him.

    At first I was bummed about the rent but now I have accepted it. I like the idea of pulling my weight he had ore stable employment then me so he helped me a lot even for rehab so I owe it t him. Also his best friend wanted to stay with him and offered him 2k a month I make a bout 5k a month so it’s less but still. The way I see it I get cheaper rent then like anywhere else in the San Fernando Valley and it goes to my boyfriend not some greedy landlord.

    Also we don’t want to break up. I have been through so much with him and he has done so much for me. He likewise knows that dating is hard especially where we live it’s not like he has girls sliding into his dms to replace me.

    He has gifted me the gift of reconciliation and I will not take it for granted I have so much to give