• MadMadBunny@lemmy.ca
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      16 days ago

      Let’s be honest here, the United States aren’t the standard they claim to be.

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            16 days ago

            Mostly the same in the US, most of the states that are 18 below require parental consent. Still not awesome but it’s not like a bunch of teenagers are getting married willy nilly.

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          That’s not accurate. In France it’s 18 , has been for a couple of decades actually. A judge can waive it in the interests of the couple but that’s super rare.

          It’s also not like you can marry a 15 year old to an adult. Statutory laws still apply, obviously.

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        16 days ago

        Anyone who knows anything about the US would never claim such a thing…

        Only people claiming this are suburban trash living their sheltered life who need to feel superior after reading something like this.

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          This country is littered with pedophiles and 48 year olds who say “age is just a number!” Just before they marry a 14 yr old.

          Anyone who knows anything about the US

          Knows this.

          You are the one who is mislead my friend

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      16 days ago

      One ex of mine got married at 17, another at 18 (Appalachian milfs and I have a thing for each other). Neither decision was good, and people may think it’s only a year, but the difference is drastic. At 18 you’re legally an adult, but at 17 you aren’t. At 17 you lack rights that your adult spouse has, like to file for divorce and to open bank accounts independently.

      The minimum marriage age should be the age of majority and I don’t care if your culture dislikes it. If you don’t trust someone is old enough to sign a contract, why are you letting someone sign that contract? If they aren’t old enough to purchase pornography, why are you letting them enter into a legal commitment with a sexual component? If they can’t legally independently demand divorce why are you letting them marry at all?

      We had to put a line between child and adult somewhere and 18 seems a pretty good place, but crossing that line grants an immense amount of freedom and independence.

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        16 days ago

        Appalachian milfs and I have a thing for each other

        Thanks, I blew air out of my nose harder than usual.

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        Surprised at your comment. Just last month I read a review of all variations of milfs in the US. Top rated milfs were the Appalachian milfs. And it makes sense. They marry young and have kids when they are young. They have much less mileage on them compared to the overwhelming amount of milfs.

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      That Wikipedia article is very poorly written and seems to contradict itself in the same paragraph multiple times. But I’m not surprised that the main locations for child marriages are Appalachia and the Jello-Belt. Backwoods hicks and ultra rural Mormons are the two main demographics i correlate with child marriage.

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      Check age of consent laws for American states. Find that outrageous? LOL, next have a look at Europe.

      If it’s legal to have sex with a 16 or 17 year old, it’s legally consistent to allow marriage.

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        You are working under the assumption that the consequences of sex and marriage are the same. Much of the world doesn’t agree, as per your list.

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        You both need to check Aisha’s age before even comparing US or Europe to it

        Classical Islamic sources state that Aisha was six at the time of her marriage with Muhammad and nine at the time of its consummation.

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          I’m well aware, just commenting on modern age laws perhaps being crazier than most people know.

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            I guess being from Europe I don’t find the numbers particularly crazy, at least considering the context