• AhismaMiasma@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Non-adherence to the “Golden Rule.” It’s very simple, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

    Religious components aside, just don’t be a jerk to others. Start from a place of respect and reevaluate after they show their colors.

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      1 year ago

      Dignity is inherent in each individual and rightfully belongs to them. Toxic people seem to think dignity and respect are gifts they bestow on others.

      • LegionEris [she/her]@feddit.nl
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        1 year ago

        Yeah, I’m a weirdo. Treating others how I want to be treated would be a fucking problem. I don’t like unstructured time in my workday. Forced breaks are traditionally fifteen minutes of me anxiously spinning my wheels. The golden rule would stipulate that I try to make sure other people get as few breaks as possible because I sincerely usually prefer to stay in my task flow/mindset. The reality is that my coworkers appreciate the flexibility my work style affords them. I will be there taking care of shit whenever they need their unstructured time. They can count on me to provide them with the opposite of what I want.

        • Kerfuffle@sh.itjust.works
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          It doesn’t mean doing the exact same thing, it means treating others in the way you’d like to be treated.

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      1 year ago

      Religious components aside,

      The ethic of reciprocity is found in pretty much every society that has ever been known to exist.

      As much as one or another religion might try to claim it as exclusively their own, it is really a basic pre-requisite for any sucessful society.

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      So if they like people being jerks to them, I can be - I mean they can be jerks to people?